Hmm, doing both ways is fun, but let me put it this way..doin’ it while both in goodie-goodie times only lead to ‘goodie-goodie’ intimacy. Things, style & behaviour might be mundane & boring, whereas doing it after an argument unleashes the dirty of the dirtiest cos both parties are trying to suppress their guilt & wrongdoing in the dirtiest way while love making. I kinda fancy this one as both will unleash their raunchy side to the max while trying to make up for each other to the wildest of context

But i wont sacrifice just to have this good fuck each time via fights, cos I don’t like to fight lor. Can do it goodie-goodiely so is up for us to spice up & unleash the wild side without getting into fights first.

Just my 2 cents.